Pendleside Medical Practice

Coping with Bereavement and Loss

Navigating Grief and Finding Healing

Losing a loved one is one of life’s most challenging experiences, and coping with bereavement can feel overwhelming. Grief is a natural response to loss, and everyone processes it differently. Understanding how to manage grief and taking care of yourself during this difficult time can help you navigate the journey towards healing.

1. The Emotional Process of Grief

Grief often comes in waves and can bring a mix of emotions, such as sadness, anger, guilt, or even relief, depending on the circumstances of the loss. It’s important to acknowledge that these feelings are completely normal. There is no right or wrong way to grieve, and your emotions may fluctuate over time. Allowing yourself to feel and express these emotions is a crucial part of the healing process.

2. Accepting Help and Support

During times of grief, leaning on your support network—whether it be family, friends, or a bereavement support group—can be incredibly beneficial. Sharing your feelings and memories with those who understand your loss can provide comfort and a sense of connection. Although grief can feel isolating, you don’t have to face it alone. Sometimes, just having someone listen can ease the emotional burden.

3. Taking Care of Yourself

Looking after yourself is vital when grieving. Loss can drain your energy, making it difficult to focus on even basic needs. Try to maintain a balanced diet, get enough rest, and engage in gentle activities that nurture your body and mind, such as walking, reading, or practising mindfulness. These simple acts of self-care can help you cope with the emotional strain and prevent further stress.

4. Understanding That Grief Takes Time

Healing from the loss of a loved one is not something that happens quickly or follows a straight path. Grief doesn’t adhere to a timeline, and you may find yourself revisiting intense emotions long after the initial loss. Be kind to yourself, and remember that it’s okay to grieve at your own pace. Over time, the sharpness of the pain may ease, though the memory of your loved one will always remain with you.

5. Honouring the Memory of Your Loved One

Finding meaningful ways to honour the memory of your loved one can help with the grieving process. This could involve creating a memorial, engaging in activities they cared about, or continuing a tradition that was special to them. Celebrating their life and remembering the positive impact they had can keep their memory alive, offering a sense of comfort and closure.

6. Seeking Professional Support

Sometimes, grief can feel too heavy to bear alone, and seeking professional help is a positive step. If you find that your grief is affecting your ability to carry on with daily life, it may be helpful to speak to a counsellor or therapist who specialises in bereavement. They can offer you coping strategies and provide a safe, supportive environment to explore your emotions more deeply.


Grieving is a deeply personal experience, but you don’t have to go through it alone. By giving yourself time, connecting with supportive people, and practising self-care, you can find ways to navigate this difficult period. Over time, your grief may shift, allowing you to remember your loved one with warmth and comfort, rather than only pain.

For further information visit:

https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/guides-to-support-and-services/bereavement/support-and-self-care/

https://www.cruse.org.uk/